Spreadsheets designed to help you prove the abuse, prepare for Fact Findings and evidence risk to the children
Is your evidence overwhelming you?
In cases involving narcissists, coercive control, post separation abuse and parental alienation a lack of evidence is never the problem. In fact it is often the sheer volume of it that leads to procrastination and you shutting down. Facing the prospect of revisiting years of abuse is daunting and can trigger a trauma response - flight.
This is what your ex is hoping for, that they have done enough damage to keep you on your knees so they can say whatever they want and get away with it because you don't have the energy to fight.
Is no-one listening?
Family Court can display many of the abusive patterns you experienced in the relationship - gaslighting, invalidating your concerns, ignoring you, lying. This all plays into the hands of your abuser. When you are triggered by the behaviour of professionals, you react in ways which discredit you and can result in you being seen as the problem.
All the while, your ex sits there acting the victim and gaining ground, despite your wealth of evidence showing years of abuse.
Are you sick of being dismissed as neurotic or abusive?
The more you try to raise your concerns, the more they ignore you and the case swings drastically closer to your ex winning. You feel trapped between being silenced and feeling terrified your ex has everyone fooled.
Of course your ex plays their part perfectly, softening their voice to sound all innocent, crying on queue to gain sympathy and telling lies so convincingly even you aren't sure any more.
Are you ready to take back control?
Let your evidence do the work for you with our uniquely designed resources to help you organise your evidence, prove abuse and document your concerns.
Introducing our EVIDENCETRACKER collection
... to help you at every step of your journey
Whether you are heading for mediation, FHDRA, Fact Find or Section 7 or 37, our resources will help you get your evidence organised so you can present your case with confidence, clarity and credibility.
Taking the emotions out of it so that your ex can no longer trigger you into reacting and giving strength to their false narrative.
Our Collection is designed for cases just like yours and has been used to successfully obtain a Prohibited Steps Order, appoint an expert under Practice Directive 25 and avoid a Fact Finding under case law K v K (2022) for coercive control
EVIDENCETRACKER
Our format allows you to keep a running record of all your evidence from both the past and present. You can begin to organise your evidence into categories which, when used with our Writing For Court guide, can help you powerfully present your case at your FHDRA.
Using our specially designed format, you can begin to position your evidence to give you increased credibility and to show the depth of your evidence. It will support your Schedule of Allegations and help you obtain a finding of fact on the key elements in your case.
In Child Arrangements proceedings, you can use the Risk Assessment format to show why further abuse is likely and the harm it will cause if not managed. It provides a framework to present your concerns in a child focused and logical way which increases credibility and is more likely to result in robust court orders.
