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HIGH CONFLICT FAMILY COURT CASE ASSESSMENT
This is a short assessment is designed to give you insight into the level of severity you are dealing with. You will then receive guidance on the level of conflict you are dealing with, the tactics they are likely to use and methods which will / will not work, as well as advice on next steps.
The Low Cost, Step-by-Step Guide To Preparing For Family Court Against A High Conflict Ex And Putting An End To Post Separation Abuse
This unique online programme walks you through every step of the process, leading you towards the ultimate goal - FREEDOM FROM ABUSE
With 7 specifically designed modules (detailed below) covering every aspect of what to expect from your ex, the process and the professionals to how to prepare emotionally and practically for false allegations, Cafcass meetings and court hearings
you will feel more CONFIDENT to face your ex in court and not be triggered
you will have more CLARITY about what to present and how in order to get your concerns and experience validated and taken seriously
you will gain more CREDIBILITY as a reliable witness which will undermine your exes false narrative and put you in the driving seat
Abusers
Types: Understanding the different types of abusers can help victims identify patterns in their own experiences.
Tactics: Knowledge of common tactics used by abusers can help victims recognize when they are being manipulated.
Psychology: Insight into the psychology of abusers can help victims understand why the abuser behaves as they do, which can be validating and reduce self-blame.
Preparation for the Process
Planning: Guidance on what to expect in court and how to plan for it can reduce anxiety and uncertainty.
Preparing for False Allegations: Understanding how narcissists operate can help victims prepare for potential false allegations.
Organising and Presenting Evidence
Organising: Tips on how to organise evidence can make it easier for victims to keep track of important information.
Presenting: Advice on how to present evidence in court can help ensure that the victim’s case is understood and taken seriously.
Presenting Risks
Articulating Risks: Guidance on how to articulate the risks posed by the narcissist’s parenting practices can help protect children’s wellbeing.
Child Custody: Understanding how courts evaluate child custody can help victims advocate for their children’s best interests.
Working with Professionals
Legal Professionals: Tips on how to communicate effectively with lawyers can help ensure that the victim’s legal representation is effective.
Social Workers and Others: Understanding how to work with social workers, therapists, and other professionals can help victims access the support they need.
Obtaining Robust Court Orders
Advocacy: Guidance on how to advocate for oneself in court can empower victims to seek the protection they need.
Understanding Court Orders: Education about different types of court orders can help victims understand what protections are available to them.
Powerful Recovery Tools
Emotional Regulation: Tools for managing emotions can help victims cope with the stress and trauma of their experiences.
Trauma Management: Resources for understanding and healing from trauma can support victims in their recovery journey.
Cost Effective and Money Saving
In terms of cost-effectiveness, the programme’s cost of £57 is likely to be significantly less than the costs associated with legal representation. While legal representation is often necessary, the knowledge and skills gained from the programme can complement legal advice and potentially reduce the amount of legal assistance required.
Don't let your ex control the court process and the rest of your life
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'The videos and the workbook are invaluable, very clear and delivered at a very manageable pace....thank you!'
Mary
*name changed to protect their identity
You need to know this
before you enter the court arena or else your ex is going to have everyone convinced you are the problem and rather than investigate their behaviour, you will be the one under the spot-light, leaving your ex to control the narrative and continue to abuse you (and the children) through the courts
Are you struggling to navigate the Family Court system? Do you feel like your high conflict, narcissistic ex is always one step ahead of you? Get Court Ready is here to help.
Narcissists (and other toxic personalities) can use family court to continue their abuse in several ways:
False accusations: Narcissists will often beat their opponent to court by falsely projecting their issues onto the opponent. This false accusation forces the opponent to be on the defensive and causes the court system to frown when the opponent makes a similar charge against the narcissist.
Using loopholes: Narcissists love to find loopholes in the law and use it to their favor. However, if their opponent were to utilize a loophole against them, the attacks would be ruthless.
Playing the role of hero or victim: Narcissists will claim that their opponent is alienating them or abusing them. They will even manipulate the children to confirm their story, thus proving their prowess.
Refusing to compromise: A narcissist will often refuse to compromise because they don't want their ex to "win," so it's unlikely that the case will be settled out of court. Expect a high-conflict case that will last a year or more
Lying to the judge: Narcissists may lie to the judge to make their ex's life harder
Using the court system to bully their opponent: The legal system becomes an unknowing and unwilling extension of the narcissistic arm reaching out to cause as much damage as possible. Their take no prisoners attitude stops at nothing to seek revenge for causing pain over some perceived embarrassment
Do any of these sound like the sort of tactics your ex would use or is using?
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Are you dealing with a narcissist?
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As an ex social worker, I honestly thought I knew about as much as there was to know about how adults hurt one another but this experience took me to a whole new level and made me feel powerless.
I know how it feels to be trapped in an abusive relationship. The constant fear and uncertainty, the manipulation and control, the feeling of worthlessness - it's something that no one should ever have to go through. But what's worse is when that abuse follows you into family court. Suddenly, you're fighting not just for your safety and sanity, but for the safety and well-being of your children too. It's overwhelming, intimidating, and exhausting.
But I want you to know that you're not alone. I was once in your shoes, but I found a way out. I found the tools, strategies, and support I needed to gain confidence, clarity, and credibility in family court. And now, I want to share that with you through Get Court Ready.
How to prepare for court against your high conflict, narcissistic ex so you can get the best outcome for you and your children without losing the plot…
LEARN HOW TO DEFEAT YOUR EX AND THE LIES IN FAMILY COURT
Costing you less money, reducing the time spent in court and away from your children, and putting you back in control
(even if you're going head to head with a difficult ex and you've no idea how any of this works...)
Finally! Someone who speaks sense on the inside is revealing these little known methods for getting the result you deserve in family court. Once you’ve discovered the transformational power of this program you’ll wish you’d had it right back at the start.
Did you know that 76.3% of parents stated that Family Court had caused financial ruin and emotional devastation. Have you ever wondered why they take so many years to process? Are you stuck because you just don't know what step to take next?
A recent survey showed that 38 out of 54 parents with Child Arrangement Orders had exes who repeatedly broke the court order.
It’s why even a Final Order is rarely a final order.
High Conflict, narcissistic individuals use the court system to continue their abuse, flaunting the rules and twisting the narrative.
Before long, they are playing the victim and you are fighting false allegations whilst all your evidence is overlooked!
With Get Court Ready, you'll learn how to:
- Prepare for your court case
- Understand the legal system
- Deal with a narcissistic ex in court
- Protect your rights and your children's rights
Don't let your narcissistic ex control your life any longer. Sign up for Get Court Ready today and take back control.
To help you understand why Get Court Ready is necessary
The average private Family Court case takes 40.5 weeks to reach a Final Order. Your case isn't average though. And with a narcissistic ex, a Final Order is never a Final Order. Realistically you could be looking at 5 to 10 years of court. Unless you get properly prepared......
DISCOVER THE TOOLS TO FACE AND CONQUER FAMILY COURT
Grab Get Court Ready today for just £57
This online system will walk you through, step-by-step, the process of preparing for court against a narcissistic, alienating, controlling, manipulative bully from what to expect from their behaviours in court so you can build a powerful, proven strategy around it (which will blow your mind!) to how to use their predictable actions against them and gain the upper hand, and heal your own trauma so they can no longer bait you into reacting and feeding the false narrative of DARVO.
Get Court Ready is an online course designed specifically for survivors of coercive control, narcissistic abuse, parental alienation, emotional and psychological abuse, and domestic abuse who are struggling in family court. The course is a comprehensive, step-by-step guide that walks you through the entire process of preparing for court. From gathering evidence and documentation to building a strong case and presenting yourself effectively in court, Get Court Ready has everything you need to succeed.
Why is Get Court Ready important?
Family court can be a daunting and overwhelming experience, especially for survivors of domestic abuse. But with Get Court Ready, you'll have the knowledge, skills, and confidence to navigate the system and present your case effectively. You'll be able to stand up to your abuser and fight for the justice and safety you deserve. Plus, the course is completely online, so you can learn at your own pace and from the comfort of your own home.
What makes Get Court Ready different?
Get Court Ready isn't just another generic legal course. It's specifically tailored to the unique needs and challenges of survivors of domestic abuse. Our team of experts, including social workers, therapists, and survivors themselves, have created a comprehensive, practical, and empowering course that is designed to help you succeed in family court. Plus, with our community of like-minded survivors, you'll have the support and encouragement you need to keep going.
Why does Get Court Ready work?
Get Court Ready works because it's based on proven strategies and techniques that have helped countless survivors before you. Our team of experts has decades of combined experience working with survivors of domestic abuse (particularly psychological and narcissistic abuse), and we've used that experience to create a course that is practical, effective, and empowering. Plus, we offer ongoing support and guidance to ensure that you have everything you need to succeed.
How will Get Court Ready affect your life?
Get Court Ready will change your life. It will give you the knowledge, skills, and confidence to stand up to your abuser and fight for the justice and safety you deserve. It will help you gain clarity and peace of mind knowing that you're prepared and ready for court. And most importantly, it will help you move on from the trauma of domestic abuse and start living the life you deserve.
What do I get when I join Get Court Ready?
You get immediate, lifetime access to the online platform meaning there are no hidden costs and you can do the course at your own pace. You get access to the additional tools of:
I AM SAFE - trauma recovery course
EVIDENCETRACKER - record and organise all your evidence
Study workbook - to support your learning
Writing For Court - a free guide to crafting your statements
GET COURT READY
Empowering You to Win Against A High Conflict, Narcissistic Ex
Gain Legal Confidence
With Get Court Ready, you'll learn how to navigate the family court system with ease. Our comprehensive online course will provide you with the knowledge and skills necessary to confidently stand up for yourself and your family in court.
Outsmart Your Ex
Your ex-partner may be using manipulation and psychological tactics to intimidate you in court. Our course will equip you with the tools you need to anticipate and counter these tactics, giving you the upper hand in any legal proceeding.
Secure Your Children's Future
The safety and wellbeing of your children is paramount. Our course will teach you how to effectively advocate for your children's best interests in court, ensuring their future is protected.
Maximise Your Chances of Winning
With expert guidance and insider knowledge, Get Court Ready will help you build a strong case and increase your chances of winning in court. Our step-by-step approach will walk you through the process, from preparing your evidence to presenting your case with confidence.
Protect Your Mental Health
Navigating a legal battle with an abusive ex can be emotionally taxing. Get Court Ready will provide you with the tools and support you need to prioritise your mental health, so you can stay strong and focused throughout the process.
Access Expert Guidance
Our course is written by an ex social worker turned coach who has helped countless individuals like you succeed in court. With their guidance, you'll have access to insider tips and strategies that can make all the difference in your case.
EVIDENCETRACKER helps you to organise and present forensically sound evidence. Paper notes, screenshots or a digital diary or notes is inadequate, risky and can ultimately be costly.
Taking a plastic bag full of bits of paper or scrolling through your phone with your solicitor is going to cost you a fortune!
EVIDENCETRACKER allows you to organise your evidence and expose the patterns of behaviour evident in these types of cases involving toxic, narcissistic, controlling individuals.
EVIDENCETRACKER will help you to prove:
Emotional/
Psychological abuse
Including gaslighting, harassment and stalking
Domestic Abuse
Including coercive control, verbal abuse, threats and intimidation, and post separation abuse
Parental Alienation
Including conflict from your ex, false allegations, triangulation and alienating behaviour
Three of the biggest myths in family court are about domestic abuse and how that presents in court.
Abuse can happen to ANYONE
The behaviours and tactics used by abusers are the same regardless of gender, age and sexual orientation.
Narcissists WILL attempt to alienate you
Parental alienation is a form of post separation abuse which as devastating impact on the child and family.
Abusers DO WELL in court.
Their personalities are well matched to the black and white nature of Family Court.
Booka call with us!
If you are looking for a more bespoke service or need support to organise your evidence, book a call with one of our team to see how our coaching and mentorship can help you succeed in Family Court.
Written and created by Sarah Squires, Narcissistic Abuse and Parental Alienation Recovery Coach, author of numerous books on Narcissism and Recovery including Communicating With A Narcissist, Help! My Child Is Being Used As A Weapon and Gaslighting and Cognitive Dissonance, Sarah has made it her life’s work to right the wrongs of the family court system.
As an ex social worker, Sarah has dedicated her life to protecting children from abuse and neglect. That is why, following her own personal encounter with a narcissistic alienator, she decided to put all her efforts into helping others navigate the confusing, frustrating, extortionate and most often unfair Family Court System.
After many years working with families in her therapy business The Nurturing Coach, she recognised the patterns of behaviour in both the victim and abuser which were almost text book every time. Having a naturally logical mind, Sarah realised that if human behaviours were this predictable, there must be a way to utilise this knowledge to prevent misjustice within the Family Court.
And Get Court Ready was born!
Sarah is a qualified social worker, BACP registered therapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, PTSD Practitioner, Energy Worker and have my own personal experience and healing journey to draw upon.
WHAT PEOPLE SAY
*all names have been changed to protect their identity
Jessica
"Get Court Ready was a game-changer for me. The course gave me the confidence I needed to stand up to my abusive ex and protect my kids. I couldn't have done it without this programme."
Alex
"The legal system can be intimidating, but Get Court Ready made it accessible and manageable. I felt supported throughout the process and was able to secure the outcome I wanted."
Sarah
"I was at a loss when it came to dealing with my ex in court. But Get Court Ready gave me a step-by-step plan and helped me stay focused on what really mattered. I highly recommend this programme."
Michael
"The tactics my ex was using in court were really taking a toll on my mental health. But the mental health resources provided in Get Court Ready helped me stay centred and focused. I'm so grateful for this programme."
Faduma
BEING ACCUSED OF ALIENATION
"I am a lot more settled and calm. I can feel the change. I have my own boundaries. I feel a lot more relaxed. I just wanted to thank you for all the support and help."
Dan
ALIENATED FATHER, NOW IN REGULAR UNSUPERVISED CONTACT WITH HIS CHILDREN
"The boys no longer think I am the enemy...they happily come to me."
Robert
OVERCAME ALIENATION
"I thought that you would like to know that after two years of litigation, following the final hearing I have had generous contact restored without limitations including holiday contact. Thank you for all your help. This is a victory for both my boys. Now I can move on from Get Court Ready to effective co-parenting."
Parent C
FREE FROM ABUSE
"From someone 13 years past leaving my abuser, I didn’t think anyone could do anything to improve our situation….This course is worth its weight in gold - from someone who was a bit of a skeptic, I stand corrected! Thank you. This works and what you’re doing is so powerful."
